How do you think about 'go dutch' on date.
Jun 01st 2011 23:20
Guy1: O_O ??
Girl: Why would woman pay for their own dinner when they have a guy to pay for them. In my opinion, if a man want to go dutch, that means he's dating with many girls at the same time and that's the only possible explanation.
Guy2:What? Are you serious?
Guy1:Well, maybe that's true but... still;;
Girl: Think about it, if you really like the girl, you wouldn't let her pay for her own dinner.
Guy1: Things have been changed lately...
Girl: No way! um... it might be possible after couple of times but absolutely not acceptable during the first date.
Guy1: Do you mean never?
Girl: Yeah! why? do you go dutch on the first date?
Guy1: No but..
Girl: Do you go dutch on the first date?
Guy2: No, I don't usually do that.
Girl: Really? why do you guys attack me like that? Am I wrong or something?
Guy1: We didn't... um.. I don't know;;;
Guy2: don't get mad; ok?
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This is the conversation between 2 guys and a girl on the radio.
What do you think?
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Girl: Why should women pay for their own dinner when they can have a guy to pay for them.
In my opinion, if a man wants to go dutch, it means he's dating with many girls at the same time. That's the only possible explanation.
Guy1: Things have been changing lately...
maybe after the first couple of dates it might be okay, but absolutely not during the first time.
Do you go dutch on the first date?
Guy2: No, not usually.
why are you guys attacking me like this?
Guy2: Please don't get mad?
In my own opinion, I don't like when men pay for me. So, unless it's some kind of special occasion and he wants to treat me, I always dutch =D
I don't really agree with that girl's logic either. haha
I guess the girl in the conversation should learn your way of thinking.
Bad news is that many Korean women think like her.;;
감사합니다. ^^
What do you think about "going dutch" on a date?
Girl: I was shocked that most of young guys these days want to go dutch. // I was shocked that most of the young guys these days want to go dutch.
Guy1: Things have (been) changed lately...
It may be possible (acceptable) after a couple of times (dates) but absolutely not acceptable during the first date.
Going dutch means that each person pays for their own things. I don't usually go dutch. I either pay for everything or he pays for everything. I do that with friends too, not just with the person I date.
I don't really like it when men think that they need to pay for everything. I am a career woman and I can pay for my own things too. However, I don't like dating stingy people either. haha ^^
There are some exceptions. If there are a lot of people, then I don't pay for everyone...or if the people I am with are not close friends, I go dutch....but usually I don't go dutch.
Anyway, thank you for the corrections!
수정 해 주셔서 감사합니다! ^ㅅ^
근데 한국에 살고계세요?
You're welcome. If I can help you with anything just let me know. ^^
하하 아니에요. 저는 한국어를 못해요! 저는 캐나다에 살고 있어서 영어와 프랑스어를 할 줄 알아요.
...그럼 좋은 하루 보내요!
I do have friends who expect (and take for granted) that guys should pay for everything (even when they're not dating and are just friends!).
Example scenario, a girl asks a guy out to meet for lunch (they're just friends) - she just shows up and doesn't even bother to bring her wallet as she expects the guy to pay.
In the end, it becomes sort of a misplaced sense of self-entitlement and just plain taking people for granted.
I bet you're not like that. You seem like a nice person. ^ㅇ^
Thank you for your opinion.