Unfair
Nov 05th 2011 18:16
Today, I will tell all of my friends this weired story I experienced last week.
One day, I had a casual conversation with exchange student coming from NY which I have never been to. So, I was totally excited to talk to her then asked her to hang out with me on day after that since he was sort of hot and seems to be attractive for me somehow but there was no feeling for her or I didnt even think about going out with her because I thought her personality is completly opposite side from my personality. She is a girl who dosent care about time and makes same mistakes again and again as if she is a foolish. Thats why I figured it out that I should stay friend with her no matter what happenes therefore I just stoped asking her to hang out at some point. To my suprise, one of the her friend told me that I did something stupid when I hanged out with her. Let me explain how I treated her as a guest. Since I asked her to hang out including dinner, I took her to my favorite Sushi restaurant then we went to her apartment chatting, studying Japanese together. Thats all I did at that night. Possibly, I huged her longer than I was supposed to do but that wasnt like embrassing her at all. I just did because this is the way people says "good bye" in America espesially, WI. Now that she dosent even answer my text or call or has been ignoring me since after we hanged out. Farankly speaking, I feel so bad because I lost one of the my friend and feel like made someone feel uncomfortable because of my behavior. If its a culture difference, I dont think I will ever never get along with them nor talk to them in person. Could someone just tell me whats wrong with her and what should I do to her.
For my concerns, answer is cleary ovbious. I will never talk to her again.
One day, I had a casual conversation with exchange student coming from NY which I have never been to. So, I was totally excited to talk to her then asked her to hang out with me on day after that since he was sort of hot and seems to be attractive for me somehow but there was no feeling for her or I didnt even think about going out with her because I thought her personality is completly opposite side from my personality. She is a girl who dosent care about time and makes same mistakes again and again as if she is a foolish. Thats why I figured it out that I should stay friend with her no matter what happenes therefore I just stoped asking her to hang out at some point. To my suprise, one of the her friend told me that I did something stupid when I hanged out with her. Let me explain how I treated her as a guest. Since I asked her to hang out including dinner, I took her to my favorite Sushi restaurant then we went to her apartment chatting, studying Japanese together. Thats all I did at that night. Possibly, I huged her longer than I was supposed to do but that wasnt like embrassing her at all. I just did because this is the way people says "good bye" in America espesially, WI. Now that she dosent even answer my text or call or has been ignoring me since after we hanged out. Farankly speaking, I feel so bad because I lost one of the my friend and feel like made someone feel uncomfortable because of my behavior. If its a culture difference, I dont think I will ever never get along with them nor talk to them in person. Could someone just tell me whats wrong with her and what should I do to her.
For my concerns, answer is cleary ovbious. I will never talk to her again.
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Don't feel too bad! :)
Today, I will tell all of my friends a story about something weird this weired story I experienced last week.
One day, I had a casual conversation with an exchange student who was coming from NY, which I have never been to.
So, I was totally excited to talk to her then I asked her to hang out with me on the day after that since she was sort of hot and I found her seems to be attractive for me somehow but I had there was no feelings for her. or I didn't even think about going out with her because I thought her personality was the is complete opposite side from of my personality. (This was a really long sentence so I think it's better separated into two.)
She is a girl who doesn't care about time and makes the same mistakes again and again as if she is a foolish.
That's why I figured it out that I should stay friends with her no matter what happenes. therefore I just stopped asking her to hang out with me at some point. (I don't really understand this, haha. "That's why I figured it out that I should stay friends with her no matter what" implies you wanted to stay friends and still hang out, then you go on to say "I stopped asking her to hang out..." I'm quite confused ^^;)
To my suprise, one of the her friends told me that I did something stupid to her when I hunged out with her.
Since I asked her to hang out and go for including dinner, I took her to my favorite Sushi restaurant then we went to her apartment, chatted and studied Japanese together. chatting, studying Japanese together.
That's all I did at that night.
Possibly, I hugged her longer than I was supposed to do but that wasn't like embrassing her at all.
I just did because this is the way people says "good bye" in America, especially in WI.
Now, that she dosen't even answer my texts or calls and or has been ignoring me since after we hunged out.
Farankly speaking, I feel so bad because I lost one of the my friends and I feel like I made someone feel uncomfortable because of my behavior.
If its due to a cultural difference, I don't think I will ever never get along with them nor talk to them in person.
Could someone just tell me whats wrong with her and what should I do to her?
As far as I'm concerned, the answer is obvious. For my concerns, answer is cleary ovbious.