I say to my children that you are okay who you are because of who you are even if your have result of exam is the very last,you can not doing something well like your friend do it well.

I say to my children that you are okay who you are because of who you are, even if your the have results of exam is the very last (lowest in the class?), you can not doing something as well like as your friend just do it well.

My second daughter talked with my friend who is a foreigner via Skype last week.

We both enjoyed them it.

That happen is just happen at that time it was a surprise for her.

But in fact, It had been a tiny small idea like this of mine since before.

Especially, I needed to do it before my third daughter arrive at arrived here.( My third daughter will come here this weekend.)

That's Why I thought so is this....

In fact, when they came here last year, they also talked with my friends who are foreigner.

But third daughter had spoken better English than second daughter by English at that time.

Therefore second daughter couldn't talk enough with my friend then and she felt sad by that situation because of this.

Afterword Afterward second daughter bend her head and nothing having and would not talk with us.

third daughter and me was just quite (quiet?).

It seems feel felt very sad.

Therefore I tried to hug to second daughter and to touch softly her hair or back.

I also wanted to say "you are okay if you can't do something as much well as everybody else can do that".

But I couldn't say my thought what I was thinking because of third daughter were there.

If I said it, third daughter also would feel regret or sad because of herselves actions.

So I had said nothing talk,I just to do stroke to her.

It was my memory about a part of I remember this from last time when we were together.

So this time, I wanted to try take out remove second daughter's trauma stress before third daughter arrive at here.

Then It was a nice time for she her and I.

I am not sure about her feeling about it this happening time.

But she seems seemed happy to talk with my friend and she is looking forward to talking another time.

She has a big view which look at of the world.

And that is a part of partly my reason that why I want to know another country and go to abroad.

I know that was why my second daughter felt so sad at last year.

It was that I and some of adult compared our children when to what they grown up.

An example, who is the person who can do study well.

who is the person who can run first even though they have personality.

It was no not good for them.

I always say to my children that you are okay who you are because of who you are even if your have result of you come last in your exam is the very last, and you can not doing something well like your friend.

My thought now is my real my feeling.

I know I am also say to me like this to myself.

I wish all of adult has act the same way to the children.

And so it is posibily possible to change something kindly and make it kinder than it is now.

I want to try to change something to in our world while I enjoy my life!