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Friends play an important role in our life. They are the ones who can share our happiness ans sadness. Sometimes when we get stuck in troubles,here is friend to give us a help hand.
Undoubtly,honesty is considered to be an essiential and fundamental quality in association with friends. This word friend has nothing to do with dishonesty. But as for "completely honest",it depends on different cases.
In most circumstance,just like when normal chatting or discussing something,complete honesty is possible and in most time,can lead to better and more efficient communication. Further more,in some special situation complete honesty is neccesary. Take a heart-to-heart talk for example,we can't get to know each other deeply and feel exactly what the friend feel without complete honesty.
However,which also happens in our daily life naturally,it is conflicts and friction between us and our friends that bring about confusion and annoyance. In that circumstance,I don't think it's possible to be completely honest with my friend,for the reason that,during a quarel,or some other conflicts,it's wise to belie some of our real feeling such as anger and disappointment. In other words,to some extent,dishonesty with mild and gentle words may be the right way to deal with unhappy atmosphere,instead of telling friends your true feeling straightforward.
To sum up,it's a little bit arbitrary to say whether it is possible to be completely honest with friends.
Undoubtly,honesty is considered to be an essiential and fundamental quality in association with friends. This word friend has nothing to do with dishonesty. But as for "completely honest",it depends on different cases.
In most circumstance,just like when normal chatting or discussing something,complete honesty is possible and in most time,can lead to better and more efficient communication. Further more,in some special situation complete honesty is neccesary. Take a heart-to-heart talk for example,we can't get to know each other deeply and feel exactly what the friend feel without complete honesty.
However,which also happens in our daily life naturally,it is conflicts and friction between us and our friends that bring about confusion and annoyance. In that circumstance,I don't think it's possible to be completely honest with my friend,for the reason that,during a quarel,or some other conflicts,it's wise to belie some of our real feeling such as anger and disappointment. In other words,to some extent,dishonesty with mild and gentle words may be the right way to deal with unhappy atmosphere,instead of telling friends your true feeling straightforward.
To sum up,it's a little bit arbitrary to say whether it is possible to be completely honest with friends.
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Friends play an important role in our life.
"my life" or "our lives"
They are the ones who can share our happiness ands sadness.
Sometimes when we get stuck in troubles,here is friend to give us a help hand.
"get in trouble" or "have trouble"
Great English. I didn't correct line by line because I was to busy reading.
Great English. I didn't correct line by line because I was to busy reading.