Money between people

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Lately I've lent my money to close friend.
(Actually it's not a friend but kind of friend because she's late 40s and lives Seoul, we've been friends 2 month ago. So it difficult to say its relationship is friendship. But I have no words to say it so I say she's kind of my friend.)

I've never said about it but she've borrowed some money to people who we know each other.

One of them called me "What happen to you and her. Did she borrow money from you?"

At first I didn't say about it but he said to me it's a big difficult situation because she've borrowed money from his close friends include of me. So I should tell him what's going on.

I don't know what'll happen to me but I hope it won't be miserable.

I don't want to lose my friends and money.

What do you think of lending your money to friends?
Dec 03rd 2008 10:01 Andy

  • Lately I've lent my money to close friend.
  • Lately I've lent my money to a close friend.

 

  • (Actually it's not a friend but kind of friend because she's late 40s and lives Seoul, we've been friends 2 month ago.
  • (Actually it's not a friend but kind of friend because she's in her late 40s and lives in Seoul, we've been friends since 2 months ago.

 

  • So it difficult to say its relationship is friendship.
  • So it is difficult to say this relationship is friendship.

 

  • But I have no words to say it so I say she's kind of my friend.)
  • But I have no words to explain it so I say she's kind of my friend.)

 

  • I've never said about it but she've borrowed some money to people who we know each other.
  • I've never talked about it but she's borrowed some money from people who we both know each other.

 

  • One of them called me "What happen to you and her.
  • One of them called meand asked me, "What happen to you and her?

 

  • At first I didn't say about it but he said to me it's a big difficult situation because she've borrowed money from his close friends include of me.
  • At first I didn't talk about it but he said to me it's a very difficult situation because she's borrowed money from his close friends including of me.

 

  • I don't want to lose my friends and money.
  • I don't want to lose my friends or money.

 
Actually, I don`t mind lending money to friends because I know all of them are good about returning the money. I really don`t like borrowing money from friends. I am good about paying the money back, but I just feel bad if I can`t pay it back right away.
Dec 03rd 2008 11:24 merry

좀 기다려보세요.. 돈이 급했던 것일수도 있잖아요.
한꺼번에 다 빌리기에는 무리가 있어서
사람들한테 조금씩 빌렸던게 아닐까요??
일단 믿음을 가지는게 중요한거 같아요.
Dec 03rd 2008 12:20 jun

A friend is the last person I want to lend money to because money harms a friendship. It is obvious that she has had a bad situation about money. Thus, it'll be difficult for you to get it back soon. In the first place, perhaps her friends need to know more about her situation.
Dec 04th 2008 03:20 aquadee

  • So it difficult to say its relationship is friendship.
  • So its difficult to say this relationship is a friendship.

 

  • But I have no words to say it so I say she's kind of my friend.)
  • But I have no words to explain it, so I'll just say she's kind of my friend.)

 
Only lend money to friends you can trust... cause even though their our friends. they can be irresponsible and not pay us back. and helping out our friends financially too much can create bad habits and they'll always depend on you for money. so, its not bad to lend money, but make sure they are dependable:)
Dec 05th 2008 07:07 tonyc

I think 2 months is too short of a time to learn enough about someone. Hopefully you will get your money back.
Dec 05th 2008 14:49 YeoJin

> Andy
Thanks for your help and comments! I'm trouble with this happening I hope it'll be solved soon...

>merry씨
돈거래는 하는게 아닌 것 같아요. 그다지 친구도 아니지만, 친한친구라면 더욱더 하면 안될 듯 싶어요...

>Jun san
You're right. I was a idiot! I'm very serious....

>aquadee
Thanks for your correction! :D
Trust is improtant.. but in this case, I was wrong....

> tonyc
You're absolutely right. I was wrong....ㅜ-ㅜ
Dec 10th 2008 23:21 hyunhyuk

Be happy...

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