I feel dispointed

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I have been feeling bad these days! Why? Because my friend misunderstood me.The specific incident is like the following:
I am studying english in an enlish trainning school. My friend wanted to study enlish ,too. So, I recommended her this school. And finally,she entered for this english trainning school. Everything was ok, and we can study English together. The problem is: This trainning school would give me a "transportation card" which you can use to take buses or the undergound in return for my recommendation. My friend felt very unhappy because of this card. She thought that the purpose why I recommend her to this school is to get this card! My god! I am very disappionted for her thoughts.So, I gave this card to her . I am not care. But she is still very cold to me . I always treat her like my sister. Why could she treat me like a stranger just because a card? I am really dispointed! Maybe, this is not indeed "friendship".
May 27th 2008 16:32 harana

  • Because my friend misunderstood me.The specific incident is like the following:
  • Because my friend misunderstood me. This is what happened:

 

  • I am studying english in an enlish trainning school.
  • I am studying English in an English training school.

 

  • My friend wanted to study enlish ,too.
  • My friend wanted to study English, too.

 

  • So, I recommended her this school.
  • So, I recommended this school to her.

 

  • And finally,she entered for this english trainning school.
  • She finally enrolled in this English training school.

 

  • Everything was ok, and we can study English together.
  • Everything was okay, and we could study English together.

 

  • The problem is: This trainning school would give me a "transportation card" which you can use to take buses or the undergound in return for my recommendation.
  • The problem is, this training school gives me a "transportation card", which you can use to take buses or the undergound in return for my recommendation.

 

  • She thought that the purpose why I recommend her to this school is to get this card!
  • She thought the reason I recommended this school to her was to get this card!

 

  • I am very disappionted for her thoughts.So, I gave this card to her .
  • I am very disappointed in her. So, I gave the card to her.

 

  • I am not care.
  • I don't care.

 

  • I always treat her like my sister.
  • I have always treated her like my sister.

 

  • Why could she treat me like a stranger just because a card?
  • How could she treat me like a stranger just because of a card?

 

  • I am really dispointed!
  • I am really disappointed!

 

  • Maybe, this is not indeed "friendship".
  • Maybe this is not "friendship".

 
Gah! Your friend really misunderstood you! I'm sorry. I hope everything works out. It was nice of you to give her the card. Friends have misunderstandings though, so maybe she'll eventually realize it was all a mistake!
May 28th 2008 09:54 Nicolebaby

Thank you my dear friend!
You helped me a lot.
Yeah,I hope she will change her mind someday.
May 28th 2008 10:06 LostInInaka

Maybe offer to take her to lunch/dinner so you can sit down and explain things more clearly to her....and smooth things over! Definitely sounds like a simple misunderstanding...I hope things can be fixed between you two soon!
Nicolebaby
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