Defeat

Did you ever suffer a defeat? I think you did. It's usual for everyone I think. Defeat like a pain. Sometimes like very big pain. Lately I often feel like I lost somethink very impotarn for me. Like I lost a part of me. And what should I do? One man said when you feel the defeat you can see your weakness and become the stronger. I think he was right. But it's so hard to admit that I'm not so amazing as I had thought before. Is it my weakness? I don't know. It would be great if my defeat made me stronger.