Love affair?

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Recently, a married government officer resigned from his position for having love affair with a socialite. It’s interesting. Sometimes, people judge others by their private lives but not their competence. Is there any statistic which shows the person who has extramarital affair will be more likely to do something improper? To be honest, I can’t figure out it, especially when the private life we talk about is not something like embezzlements or interest conflicts but love affair. They should be judged by morals, and it’s all.


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Thanks for the opinions above. (I typed here then anyone can correct it easily. )

Like what "darkhonour" said, most people look to a leader as a role model than his actual ability to lead. I think this thought/opinion prevails especially obviously in the areas which are affected by Confucianism, because in ancient China, as one of the most important characteristics, "virtue" was used by government to select local officers. Maybe because of the long-term cultural effect, the people live in Confucianism will have more expect on government officers' moral activities.

I'm not that familiar with the Western view on this topic. So, no matter on English correction or viewpoint, please give me some feedback. I'll very appreciate.
Mar 08th 2010 15:29 krejados

  • Recently, a married government officer resigned from his position for having love affair with a socialite.
  • Recently, a married government officer resigned from his position for having a love affair with a socialite.

 

  • To be honest, I can’t figure out it, especially when the private life we talk about is not something like embezzlements or interest conflicts but love affair.
  • To be honest, I can’t figure out it, especially when the private life we are talking about is not something like embezzlements or conflicts of interest, conflicts but a love affair.

 

  • They should be judged by morals, and it’s all.
  • They should be judged by morals, and it’s that is all.

 
Very well written!
Do you not think that a married man having an affair is immoral?
Mar 08th 2010 16:07 no1knowsMe

having a love affair. Oh, my God!!
it's really embarrassing. too bad.
Mar 08th 2010 16:11 darkhonour

  • Is there any statistic which shows the person who has extramarital affair will be more likely to do something improper?
  • Is there any statistics which shows the person who has extramarital affairs will be more likely to do something improper?

 
I feel that most people look to a leader as a role model than his actual ability to lead.
Mar 09th 2010 03:56 Wei

Thanks for the opinions above. (I typed here then anyone can correct it easily. )

Like what "darkhonour" said, most people look to a leader as a role model than his actual ability to lead. I think this thought/opinion prevails especially obviously in the areas which are affected by Confucianism, because in ancient China, as one of the most important characteristics, "virtue" was used by government to select local officers. Maybe because of the long-term cultural effect, the people live in Confucianism will have more expect on government officers' moral activities.

I'm not that familiar with the Western view on this topic. So, no matter on English correction or viewpoint, please give me some feedback. I'll very appreciate.
Mar 09th 2010 04:06 krejados

In the West, the issue is not about being faithful to your wife or husband, it is about making a promise of faithfulness to your wife or husband. If you have an affair with someone else, you have broken the promise you made. That is the terrible thing about having an affair.
And... If you are a public official and you break a promise to your wife, wouldn't that show that you would also break promises to the public?
Mar 10th 2010 03:20 Wei

Thank for the viewpoint on "promise." I didn't think it completely ;)
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